The Burdens of Our Children

I met a 10 year old girl yesterday. She has the innocence of a child, but her mother thinks that it’s okay to dress her up in tight clothes. The dress that she was wearing was so tight. It looked like something I would wear and it broke my heart. I couldn’t take it. I have to be honest, the first thought that came to mind when I saw her mom was to slap her. But what would that solve? Absolutely nothing. It’s my job to show the love of Christ no matter how I may be feeling. It’s important that I show God’s love. I pray that I get a chance to pour into that little girl’s life. I pray that God uses me in that situation.

I attended a small ceremony for my daughter’s art class and all I could see was the burden all over their little faces. It shouldn’t be that way! They are so young! They shouldn’t be wearing worry all over their faces! The parents aren’t dressing them like kids anymore. Only God knows what they’re dealing with at home.

Lord I ask you to protect our babies from any harm! Anything that maybe going on that is unseen, bring it to the light! Lift every burden that they may be carrying! Shine your light on every dark situation!

PARENTS we have to do better about raising our kids! We don’t have time to be selfish! The kids are here now! They don’t need a friend, they need a mother and a father! We have to protect them from danger! Some of the kids are in danger in their own homes! They depend on us to protect them! They depend on us to make the right decisions! They depend on us to take good care of them! They shouldn’t have to worry about where their next meal will come from! They shouldn’t have to worry about mommy’s boyfriend touching them!

Make their lives as easy as possible! We have to line our lives up with the Word so that we can make the best decisions! God is the answer! Somebody’s child is being touched at home and they don’t understand why! Put your needs to the side and think about your children! They need you more than you need that man! Pray for the spirit of discernment so that you will know what not to do!


Alicia E. Andrews


A Secret Weapon Is Meant To Be Kept A Secret!

Ladies, ladies, ladies. I don’t know what it’s going to take for you to realize your worth. No man will respect you if you don’t respect yourself. Some of us have become so desperate to have a piece of a man that we will do anything to keep the man. You have to set the standard.

If a man can’t take the time to get to know you, he doesn’t deserve to get to know the rest of you. Some of you are sharing all of your bedroom tricks to the world for everyone to see. You are giving away too much too soon AND to the wrong person. They are not going to tell you any different. They want to see! But as soon as he leaves you (because he will after he uses you up) he is going to marry the woman that gave him the hardest time. The woman that refused to kiss him on the first date…the woman that caught an attitude because she refused to twerk sum…the woman that wouldn’t show her goodies in his DM. The woman that didn’t mind showing him the door if he wanted to leave.

She will be the one he wants because in his mind?…even though it’s hard, she’s well worth the wait. If he really wants someone worth having he’s going to chill out. She will be the woman on his mind because he can’t quite figure her out.


Just chill and wait! Twerking, breast shots, and sex WILL NOT keep a man! It will get you one for the moment, but it won’t keep him.

Alicia E. Andrews